Communication · Executive Insight Brief · 075
Let the person change what remains open
Stakeholder voice is ethical only when it can affect understanding or action—not when listening merely simulates participation
Premise
Organizations necessarily classify people as employees, customers, patients, cases, segments, or stakeholders. Martin Buber’s I–Thou and I–It distinction asks when those useful abstractions become ethically dominant. In I–It, another is experienced through function and category; in I–Thou, the other is encountered as a unique presence whose response can genuinely enter the relationship.
For executives, dialogue is not a technique, a warm tone, or a larger number of questions. Reflective listening can be instrumental, and consultation can be staged after every consequential choice is fixed. The decisive test is whether the other person’s meaning has standing and whether leadership can be affected without abandoning judgment, role, or responsibility.
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What these mean
Editorial orientation · Family
Model
In this series, Model names the editorial family primarily used to understand and explain communication: theories, frameworks, effects, traditions, principles and other conceptual resources. It is an umbrella for a route into the field, not a claim that every included object is a predictive model.
Editorial orientation · Category
Doctrines, Principles & Normative Frameworks
Sets out principles or criteria for what should be pursued, considered legitimate or done. Its contribution is evaluative or prescriptive: it gives reasons for judging conduct and arrangements, rather than merely describing their frequency.
- KnowledgeI–Thou / Dialogic Philosophy