Communication · Executive Insight Brief · 430
Preference is not conflict competence
The TKI profiles relative preferences among five conflict-handling modes, making situational fit and repertoire more useful executive questions than whether a score is high, low, good, or bad.
Premise
The TKI changes conflict development from a search for the “best style” into an examination of repertoire and situational fit. Kenneth Thomas and Ralph Kilmann organize five modes—competing, collaborating, compromising, avoiding, and accommodating—through assertiveness and cooperativeness. The instrument reports relative preference, not observed effectiveness. A high percentile does not certify skill; a low percentile does not diagnose a deficit. The practical question is whether a person can access a less-preferred mode when a conflict requires it.
What the model is: Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI) in Knowledge →

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